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Welcome to the Misfits community in Los angeles

A Relational Habitat for connection, belonging, and lived experience

Since 2019, Misfits has been a home in Los Angeles for people exploring non-traditional relationships. Today, it’s evolving into a space for relational practice — experiential, interactive workshops where you can feel what actually happens in your body when you connect with others.

If you’ve ever felt like traditional ways of relating don’t quite fit… or you’ve had connection in your life but something still feels missing, you’re not alone. this space was created for you.

Here, we move beyond default scripts and into lived experience. We question what we’ve been taught, explore what actually feels true, and begin to shape relationships that are aligned, meaningful, and our own.

This space is for:

  • People of all genders, orientations, and ways of relating

  • Those who feel curious, in-between, or not fully at home in traditional relationship structures

  • Monogamous, non-monogamous, and everything in between

  • Those unlearning inherited patterns and exploring new ways of being in connection

  • Anyone drawn to relational growth through embodied, lived experience

  • Those who value honest conversation, shared reflection, and community support

how this ecosystem works

Misfits is a relational ecosystem grounded in lived, embodied experience. Most people enter through Misfits in Touch - our consent-based, embodied workshops where we build shared language around boundaries, presence, and connection. From there, people naturally move into other spaces over time:

🖤 Misfits in Touch an experiential workshop for discovering what feels safe and true through guided connection practices. Practice boundaries, consent, co-regulation, attuned connection, and optional platonic touch 👉Explore Misfits in Touch

👯‍♂️Misfits in Love a conversational + social space for reflecting on lived experience, exploring how we want to relate, and most importantly - to have fun! 👉Join the Misfits community below when you’re ready—we’ll meet you there

🌀Misfits in Motion a connection lab exploring relationship, consent, and patterns of relating we’re not always aware of, mind-mapping, and play 👉Explore Misfits in Motion

not sure where to start?

Most people begin with Touch, as it offers a grounded, accessible way to experience the work in the body.
Others arrive through Motion or Love, depending on curiosity and timing.

join the misfits Community

Misfits is a shared relational space... one that’s been shaped over time through lived experience, care, and collective practice.

Rather than gatekeeping through applications, we orient around shared agreements. These aren’t rules to follow perfectly, but ways we take responsibility for the kind of space we’re creating together.

If you’d like to join the Misfits community space (hosted on a private WhatsApp group), we invite you to read and agree to these shared agreements by clicking the button below. A link to join will be shared with you after.